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YES

Liar Liar Pants on Fire

Appearance in Sales

Professional Use of Space

Power of Status

Five part body scan to selling

Building rapport through body language

Anchoring

Inverse mirroring

Man Hug

Reading Emotions - Anger

Body Language and interviewing...

Physical Appearance and What it Says...

Those first few seconds
Part 1

INTENTION versus
PERCEPTION

World Hello

Reading body language
through Listening

OUR BEAUTIFUL MINDS

Effective listening

Body Language
Interview Secrets


Is that smile real or fake?

Presuppositions of Awareness

Personal Journey-
Marathon 2004

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How to get the answer you
always want - YES!

 


 

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Tonya was a wonderful speaker at our conference.  She was energetic, interesting, and very knowledgeable on the subject of body language.  She was poised, confident, and spoke quickly and easily to our audience.  We liked her so much, we have booked her for our next event. Bankrate.com
pictured above Tonya with Bankrate CEO, Tom Evans
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Tonya Reiman, Speaker
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Here's what others have to say:

Tonya Possesses a wealth of information on her subject matter and delivered it in a manner that kept us involved in the learning process"
 -Jose McGregor, Chief, Criminal Investigation Bureau of Internal Revenue

Tonya Reiman was a HIT at Influence: Boot  Camp. The information she disseminated about persuasion was absolutely fascinating and her motivational style was riveting. I  am unconditionally giving you my recommendation to consider Ms. Reiman for your next meeting, group or course. Her style, articulation and understanding of human nature are impressive. Her caring for the participants and interest in each individual was captivating.
Kevin Hogan, Psy. D
kevin@kevinhogan.com

Thank you for your presentation at SCOPE's Office Staff Conference. The audience was very receptive and loved your presentation.
Betty Kauffman
Smithtown, NY

Yours was the best workshop I ever took--. You're a wonderful speaker."
Helene Hohenstein, New York
"Tonya, I thoroughly enjoyed all three of your classes!!! You are amazingly upbeat, probably the most positive person I have met! You are an inspiration  to me" Gina D'Amaro, New York

Tonya has the ability to show how  simple little changes, attitudes or frames of experience can make a profound impact in your life. I’ve taken Tonya’s words and used them to search for and implement powerful changes not only in my personal life but business as well.Michelle Drum, Charleston, IL
www.michellematteson.com

"Tonya had her audience on the edge of their seats for the entire talk, and the feedback  I received from my clients was wonderful. They all left wanting to hear more of Tonya."
Michael Axelrod - www.nmfn.com/mikeaxelrod

 

 

Q & A
No need to post your name unless you want it posted (you just need to let me know either way) If your question is one I think others will enjoy - it gets published.

click the link to send your question: tonya@tonyareiman.com

Q: do you have any tips for someone (me!!) on how to control talking too fast while addressing others? I also have a tendency, while I do this, to interrupt in order to get my point across.

Q: Is it true that when a member of the opposite sex has the pupils of their eyes dilated this is an indication that they are attracted to you?

Q: Every time I have to go on a stage or in front of a camera to make a speech or just recieve something I am always so nervous and I feel like everybody noices that, so i was wondering how should i hide that or what should I or should not do to act more confindent in front of people.

Q: Every dating book says: "When you see a girl, look at her eyes. If she looks at you and meets your gaze, smile at her. If she smiles back, she's ready to be approached by you." Now I was walking and i saw one girl i looked at her and she looked at me, as I was pasing her I started smiling and she smiled too, but at the same time she turned her head to the side, looking down, almost touching her shoulder with her chin, but still kept smiling, so I'd like to know your opinion. What do you think she was showing. It really confused me. Was she saying something like "Don't look at me?"

Q: I'm curious if you are familiar with what Kenrick Cleveland describes as the unconscious hello

Q: Why will the VP will not keep his fingers out of his nose?

Q: I was impressed w/you on O'Reilly. But after reading your Q & A section, while I found you more people skilled than a couple of other body language "experts", I have to say, I have had it w/Bush bashers.

Q:I need to know if you can look at people unknown to you, without context, and tell what their body language is saying

Q: What kind of body language could I use in order to appear more confident speaking in front of groups?

Q. I have this problem that ,in general people take an immediate dislike to me this is before I have even spoken this is before I have even spoken, I can sense the atmosphere. Please don't say it's my imagination ,I often think maybe I give off bad vibrations and they detect it.

Q. What are your thoughts on those who chew gum as for as first impressions?

Q. I am a poker player. Do you have any material that would help tell me when a person is being deceiving by their body language?

Q.My department at work includes people from several cultures, American, Vietnamese, Indian, Filipino, Irish and Belgian.

Q: Have you examined Patsy Ramsey's body language?how she spoke when she said, "I did not kill that child." One does not speak of a recently deceased child as "that". "That" is used when speaking of the other woman. English English can give people away as well as body English

Q: Do you have your own radio or tv show?

Q: What would really be helpful would to be able to read body language that might confirm or conflict with oral communication.

Q: Will I play better poker with enhanced skills in body language?

Q: On a first date, do you think that the man should pay, or do you think that the woman should pay, or do you think they should split the bill, or do you think that they should skip the bill

Q: I don't think the fact that Bush crosses his legs and leans back when Pelosi is speaking reflects the fact that he DISAGREES with her; I think it's more of the defense posture of someone who is INTIMIDATED. Bush has had 6 years surrounded by Yes men and being lobbed softballs. Now, he's scared and defensive, because for the first time, he's going to have to represent a position without just repeating the same old catchphrases. He's going to have to think and reason. If I'm Bush's Brain, I'm worried about that project..

 Q: George Bush is right-handed. When he crossed his legs during Pelosi's words, he crossed his right leg over his left. Right handed people never do this naturally.

Q: I have told my husband many times when Bush was "selling" us the Iraq War, when he and Tony Blair were planning it that:

Q: The whole topic and study of body language has always fascinated me. I recently finished a book by Allan & Barbara Pease on the topic. Do you have any more that you can recommend?

Q: If a person scratches their head, and looks down after you ask them a question; .. Are they thinking how to lie, or are seriously contemplating the answer honestly?

Q: Is it true that men who put their thumbs in their belt loops are more prone to be perverts?

Q: I moved up from staff to supervision. Now, I am in charge of my old co-workers and they hate me for it - and, no one will listen to me. Any suggestions?

Q: My husband and I get into these really horrific arguments sometimes and then don't speak for hours. Later, after I calm down and look back and think how ridiculous they were. How could we love each other so much one minute and then hate each other the next?

Q: Do you read photos of people?

Q: How do I read body language to know if a girl is flirting with me?

Q: Is a person who wears glasses more likely to get a job over someone who does not?

Q: I have heard that first impressions are formed in just the first four minutes. How is it possible for us to judge that quickly if we like someone?

Q: I feel like I have no friends. How do people make others like them?

Q: In one of your audios you indicate that women are much better at reading signals than men are. Why is that?

Q: You have not given us a list recently of your favorite books. Any good reads as of late?

Q: I have an employee who constantly blames everything and everybody else for his shortcomings. I am at my wit's end as to how to deal with him. Of course, he has to practically commit murder in order for me to fire him as you know.

Q: What is positive body language. It doesn't make sense to me that body language can be considered positive or negative.

Q: I want my bedroom to be as romantic as possible. Can you recommend a good color to use as a base for romance.

Q: I am training for the NYC marathon this year and I know you ran it previously. I am starting to get bored with running. I don't want to quit now but every run has become a struggle, even the short ones. Can you make any suggestions?

Q: I never sleep at night because I am constantly worried about my children's health. What can I do to distract my mind?

Q: What is the difference between manipulation and your methods of building rapport?

Q: When is your book on body language for interviewing coming out?

Q: What body language signs can I look for that love may be fading?

 I attended one of your seminars where you spoke about pupil dilation. Can you tell me a little more about this fascinating topic.

How can I make myself more attractive to others?

In your opinion, do I need to have a degree in order to move up in the business world?

What does hypnosis feel like?

I'm in sales and I have a hard time trying to convince someone that my product is better than product X, what is the quickest way to close the sale?

My friend told me that if a person crosses their arms they are being unconsciously defensive - do you agree?

At what age do children going from innocent to delinquent?

What is the reptilian brain and why do I have one?

I am getting a sinking feeling that my husband is cheating on me but I don't know how to confirm it. Can I do that with body language?

Is everyone hypnotizable?

Do you believe in the NLP eye accessing cues?

I have been watching the president and based on his body language, I believe he is covering something up. What do you think?

What are some of your favorite TV shows?

What is the best color to wear as a woman to a job interview?

I'm interested in a guy at work but every time I go to speak to him he backs up away from me. What can I do to see if he likes me?

How can you tell for sure if someone is lying?

I have a relationship with someone who walks away every time an argument is started. He will not even discuss things with me - just leaves.How can I get him to listen to my needs.

 

Tremendous ability to emotionally convey message of influence.
Michael Royster
Royster Properties, Inc.
www.Luxuryhome-realestate.com

You actually touched something inside of me with your stories.
Michael DeMauro
Attorney, Staten Island, NY

What a moving and motivational message! Thanks for sharing your heart and reminding us that anything is achievable.
Ken Owens
www.KenOwens.us
Las Vegas,NV

Tonya’s message of inspiration and perseverance would be appropriate for any audience.... She’s awesome.
Todd Bramson, President, Bramson & Associates
www.toddbramson.com

You are an inspiration to me! Your heartfelt words touched me deeply. Thank you!
Katerin Scott, The Dating Coach
Snoqualmie, WA
www.MakingLoveWork4U.com

Tonya,I truly enjoyed your talk on body language. Your information was enlightening as well as empowering. Your stories were very impactful and left me feeling more encouraged and determined than ever.  I had no idea that I was in for such a treat! Where are you speaking next and can I please have a front row seat? 
Al "The Inspiration" Duncan
TV Personality and Professional Speaker
www.alduncan.net

Your speaking style was warm and sincere. Though I will never run a marathon, your story will one day get me through something impenetrable.
Rolando Cuadrado
RolandoTheRep@aol.com
(800) 805 0807

Tonya is a wonderful speaker. She feeds your sense of what it is like to care. Caring about others; caring about accomplishment, caring about yourself. Tonya infuses this into you in a way that is meant to go past any resistance any of us may have. Resistance into doing! I look forward to seeing her again.
Mark Ryan

Tonya is REAL. She gives an inspiring message.
Donald McNaughton, Scotland
Performance Coach & Trainer
www.ZonedInPerformance.com

Tonya had me cheering her on to the finish line. Now I’m ready to move to complete my goals!
Wesley Chee, California
wchee1@yahoo.com

So natural and heartfelt, Tonya Reiman changes my mind about what is most important in life.
 Clem Lisitski, Regional Vice President
PRIMERICA - a member of citigroup
Freehold, NJ
www.clemandtania.com
(732) 221-8825


 

 

 
 
 

Bill O'Reilly and Tonya demonstrating the "dominant handshake"

     
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