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Physical Appearance and What it Says
P art I
Since a very young age my mother had always reminded me that "appearances
can be deceiving". However, for the most part, society does
not acknowledge or perhaps cannot acknowledge this tidbit of wisdom.
How do we know this? Studies done indicate that infants under the
age of six months fix upon faces rated as attractive by adults much
more often than faces rated as unattractive by adults. Studies also
demonstrate that one year olds prefer to play with strangers who
are rated as attractive as opposed to those rated as unattractive.
Could this be a learned characteristic? Studies done seem to indicate
that mothers of cuter newborns show more affection towards their
babies than mothers of less attractive infants. During the above
mentioned study, each baby was rated for attractiveness via photographs
by a group of college students. The mothers and their newborns were
then observed for 20-30 minutes before leaving the hospital. Mothers
of cuter newborns showed more affection to their babies by holding
them closer, patting them more often and giving them more "baby
talk". Mothers of less attractive babies were seen to pay more
attention to others around them and be more concerned with things
such as "diaper duty" (no pun intended).
What conclusion can be drawn from this information? Appearance
matters…..
Beginning in the infancy stage and continuing over into the adult
stage – we rate individuals on their appearance. We are told
to treat everyone equal, but we never do. On average, children will
be mean to or avoid the unattractive, overweight, poorly dressed
and "uncool" population. Unfortunately, this goes way
beyond children. Teachers also favor the more attractive students.
Studies show that teachers believe that good-looking, well-groomed,
and dapper dressed children are smarter than their less attractive
peers. From this, some children spiral downward onto the path of
a negative self-fulfilling prophecy.
Just for a quick moment – think of a man wearing glasses
– what is the first adjective you think of? Smart? Usually,
that is the answer. Do most people unconsciously feel that individuals
who wear glasses do so because they have read so many books that
their eyes have been damaged and therefore they need glasses to
correct the damage?
Interestingly, this is not new. The desire to be attractive has
been around since the earliest civilizations. Excavations of bodies
reveal that Neanderthals used natural pigments to paint their bodies.
Ancient people stained their skin and created intricate jewelry
and clothing to enhance their appearance. Women in the middle ages
used a poisonous plant known as belladonna to dilate their pupils.
Dilated pupils would make women appear more sexually arousing provoking
men to find them more attractive. Of course, because it was poisonous
it was potentially fatal. Did this stop the women from using it?
No, women would use the eye drops, dilate their eyes and then potentially
drop dead, but do so looking very, very good.
As a population, we have established what we believe to be the
end-all of "attractive". Plastic surgeons have developed
the model of perfect facial features and proportions. Plastic surgeons
can now determine exactly how far a patient’s facial features
deviate from the ideal face. They are equipped with the perfect
measurement to determine what the proper length and angle of a nose
should be, the exact distance between the eyes, the precise height
of the forehead. The accurate spacing between the tip of the forehead
down to the tip of the jawline. Everything to make you flawless.
What have they discovered? For women, attractive equals clear skin,
high cheekbones, shiny hair, a high forehead, full lips, small jaw,
small chin, big eyes and a small nose. For men attractive equals
large expressive eyes set in a smooth-skinned symmetrical face,
a straight nose and rounded hair and jaw line.
In addition to having the perfect features, facial attractiveness
is also based on the principle of symmetry. In a study done in 1994,
photographs of male and female students were precisely measured
at varying points to determine whether features on one side of the
face were equal to the midpoint as the same features on the other
side of the face. They then showed assymetrical photographs and
symmetrical photographs to groups. Of course, the results pointed
to the most symmetrical faces also being chosen as the most attractive.
So what are the rest of us to do?
Overall, how does this affect us? Our self esteem is closely tied
to our physical traits. Therefore, the more physically attractive
we are perceived to be, the higher our self-esteem will be. Of course,
there are those individuals who, regardless of whether or not people
think they are drop dead gorgeous, still have poor self-esteem.
Just as there are those of us who are perhaps not as good looking,
yet still have incredibly high self esteem. Unfortuntely, the latter
is not the majority. As you might already conclude, this tends to
occur more often with women than with men. In addition, physical
attractiveness affects not only our self esteem but also how others
perceive us. As stated earlier, teachers believe that more attractive
students are smarter, students rate attractive professors as being
better teachers. Physically attractive people are looked upon as
being more interesting, more credible, more trustworthy and more
persuasive than unattractive people.
The bottom line once again, appearance matters.
Ok, moving on to the halo effect. The halo effect is the generally
positive impression we perceive of someone based on an unrelated
attribute. An example of this would be believing that someone who
wears glasses is smarter than someone who does not. Another example
would be a movie star who might potentially know more about phone
service than I do just because she is on TV. What about the athlete
who sells us underwear. Recognition, high status, and beauty create
positive impressions that extend outward to other areas of our lives.
This exists everywhere you look. Judges give lighter sentences to
more attractive defendants, good looking people get better jobs,
tall men are perceived as powerful, women with smaller breasts are
perceived as smarter than women with large breasts. The list goes
on and on. Men who are perceived as having "baby faces"
were considered weaker, more submissive and more intellectually
naïve.
What about body shape? Typically, there are three different types
of body shapes: Mesomorph which is represented by large bones and
well-defined muscular shape. Typically the mesomorph has a V-shape
or wedge shape which starts off thicker at the shoulders and narrows
to a smaller waistline. The mesomorph is always in good shape. Endomorph
which is typically rounder, shorter, plumper and softer battles
weight gain daily. Usually, the endomorph holds a portion of their
weight in their abdominal area giving them an apple shape. Lastly,
the ectomorph. The ectomorph is usually seen as fragile and delicate
with small bones and joints. The ectomorph usually appears taller
than they really are because they are so thin and they constantly
struggle to maintain their weight.
Of course, everyone is a combination of the three different types.
Why is this significant? Because, although body shape is generally
considered to be genetic, it can be adjusted by diet and exercise
as well as surgery. Therefore, a person’s general body shape
will also convey a distinct about their personality.
What does excess weight say about a person?
Stay tuned next week for part II. |
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